Go to bed at the same time Feel like you never have a free moment together? “Bedtime might be the only opportunity you’re alone together all day,” says Barton Goldsmith, Ph. Even if you’re a night owl, you can always stay in bed until your partner drifts off.
Don’t worry about making it a drawn-out conversation, she says.
It can be as simple as a one-liner that hints at your intention like, “The kids are gone. ” As long as your partner is game for the idea too, nothing’s stopping you.
If you’re feeling so-so about your bedroom romps, it might be time for a change.
One idea: try having sex in a room or area you’ve never done it in.
Or you could try a new a cooking technique — homemade sushi, anyone?