I am not saying you need to be willing to give up who you are, but being open to self-growth, learning and, yes, potentially change, is too important to ignore in a serious relationship.You do not need to have a 10-year plan written and implemented, but you do need to have an idea of what you want and where you are going.
These are the qualities a man either has or comes with that you can't tolerate in your life.
Or conversely, they are qualities a man MUST HAVE in order to date you, such as the same religion or culture.
At a minimum, you need to have some stability in place for right now as you continue to figure out the details of what you want.
At this point in life, taking a risk on someone who has no idea of a plan for the future is just too scary.
I guarantee whatever Deal Breakers you skip over now ...