If you're looking for a potential spouse, you must know that not every girl is suitable for marriage.
As an added insult, these men did not resemble the old pictures they had posted.
Another issue is whether a good and long first phone conversation or date predicts anything.
So it seems that meeting someone great is often a result of chance, or fate or kismet.
This first date was preceded by only a few emails and texts (funny, witty, and creative ones though).
Usually, it happens when you realize that you haven't fully fulfilled yourself.