Men get some relief by looking at either live women or even pictures of women.
Many men just stand on the sidelines and watch women dance because there is no chance for rejection (a huge fear).
They get some degree of pleasure from running their eyes over every appealing curve and bare skin area on a woman's body.
Flipping hair, wiggling butt, bouncing boob images will stay with a man for the next few days and nights and provide some relief.
Your goal is to attract the attention of men, but not invite an attack.